Men + Woman + Sex + Fantasy = Affair

Men & Affairs

Men often want casual sex just for the pleasure of sex. Men may admit or boast that they pretend to be in love to have sex with women. (Most women say that men will pretend to love them as a preliminary for sex.) Younger men usually seek sexual affairs rather than love affairs. Their primary motivations are physical pleasure, to succeed, to impress friends and/or to gain sexual experience.

Older men are more likely to have affairs with women who understand, accept and appreciate them. They may pay prostitutes to gratify sexual desires that they would not ask a decent woman to do. Men who are emotionally bonded to their mothers are likely to have affairs to avoid or to sabotage a committed partnership. They are also likely to boast to their (mother-bonded) male friends about the number and variety of their sexual adventures.

The longer a woman is married, the more likely she will have an affair. Women choose sexual affairs for pleasure and for experience. An affair may provide a woman with missing emotional intimacy. A woman may have affairs to create a reserve source of intimacy , especially if she feels bored, disappointed or uncertain about her partnership or marriage.

A woman is more likely to satisfy missing emotional needs in a partnership by mentally reliving past romantic affairs, or by preoccupation with the love lives of other people. Women who are emotionally bonded to their fathers are likely to have wild affairs with older men.

Relationships, time and effort

Relationships are like anything else, the more time and effort we put into them, the more successful they will be.

If our marriages and other relationships seem unsatisfying, we must first look at what we are putting into these relationships, rather than what we're getting out of them. We can't expect more from a relationship than we're willing to put into it.

When we're first courting, our infatuation with the other person leads us to be romantic and prone to outward signs of affection.

Write love letters, deepest feelings and thoughts

Write love letters, spend hours talking about yours deepest feelings and thoughts, you need hold hands in public, and say sweet things for no reason, etc.

Unfortunately, as the relationship continues and you begin to focus more on other things and less on our partner, the relationship loses its initial spark and we begin to feel a loss of love, intimacy and excitement.

This doesn't mean our love is fading or the relationship has less to offer, it simply means we've forgotten to keep the love alive.

All can recapture the excitement, love, and intimacy our relationships once had, and without a major overhaul.

Simply putting forth a little effort each day can make all the difference in the world.

Things you did when you were first dating

When was the last time you woke up, turned to your partner and told them you loved them? Or called them at the office for no other reason than to say you missed them?

If you need ideas, just think back to the things you did when you were first dating. It won't take long for your partner to notice your renewed affection, and suddenly you'll find them returning these gestures of love.

The relationship you once questioned will have new sense of fulfillment

Soon the relationship you once questioned will have taken on a whole new sense of fulfillment, love, and intimacy.

You all can have a lifelong love affair with our partners, you simply need to remember to put into the relationship what we want out of it.